Dating emotionally abused women
To me, women who had been in abusive realtionships, are damaged goods.Especially, if she's coming from a abusive father, abusive boyfriends etc. I feel if the woman hasnt done the necessary work to heal (Therapy) then yes she carrries alot of baggage into the next relationship with her.
if you both want to continue being together get help for that. Thats a laugh..about everyone I have ever dated has had thier own "issues".anyone man or woman who has been abused/raped etc.going to have alot of issues.you will have to jump through a few hoops.It depends if you are prepared to go with this and accept her for what she is right now and assist her in the process of growth and healing or if it feels too much for you, and if it does no bad judgement on you at all, we all have our limitaions and you need to respect yours.Unfortunately for someone badly abused in childhood their wounds may linger and they may struggle greatly to come to terms with it and be able to move on.Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.I recently was dating someone who had been in a abusive relationship prior to the one we had,and have a harde time understanding why she was so confused.Did she come home drunk and start hitting him and he shoved her to get her off him? I kicked the knife out of her hands and locked her out of the aprtment while the poilce came. Cleared or any wrongdoing, but it is still there as a past charge.
This is not always black and white, but you WILL pay forever because of what someone else did.
I don't think all men are abusers, although if a guy says something off-kilter, I'll ask him to explain.
But I won't freak out to the point where it'll effect our relationship.
But like I say this is true of just about everyone you will meet.
If the woman is a "good woman" working through whatever may still plague her will help to soldify your bond..
I would imagine that there are many women rolling thier eyes thinking isnt this like all those men who suffer from issues such as : "i think my penis is too small" /"im too short"/"im not rich enough".....that make those men damaged goods?