Dating multiple people okay
And, let's face it, I'm not used to more than one girl liking me at a time.I'm able to manage multiple friendships, because it's important to me, so maybe if relationships are important enough, I can pull it off.
While I was hanging out with Pam, I went to a party and met a friend of a friend named Nicole.Who am I to think that these women are not playing the field as well? How stupid would I feel if I didn't play the field and later found out that one or both of these girls was seeing other guys too? Do you think it's a fair thing to do, or do you think it's risky/dangerous? Should I tell the women I'm seeing other people or keep it secret?Is it two-timing if I don't tell them both the truth?Should You Assume The Person You’re Dating Is Also Seeing Other People?I think it’s always a good idea to assume that the other person involved is also meeting other people, particularly if you met them on a dating site.He told me to cherish the time I spend with women-and I can do that, I've recently re-discovered how nice it is to have a female care about me.
But what if one or both of these relationships gets serious?
So all of my guy friends and even most of my girl friends were telling me to hang out with both women.
Essentially they advised me to "see other people."I've never been comfortable with the idea of "seeing other people."Here are pros and cons of seeing other people: Incomplete projects strewn around is a hallmark of the ADD-afflicted person's life. Considering I have trouble following through with one girl, how much trouble will I have following through and managing two different relationships?
The next day, I found out that Nicole thought I was cute, and I was faced with a quandary...because Nicole was cute too.
To make matters worse, they were complete opposites: Pam was younger, just starting off in the work force, and Nicole was a bit older and she was a lawyer.
If one gets serious, then I have to hurt the other girl by cutting that relationship off.